BY
MRS. S. M. I. HENRY.
To
illustrate how much may result from a little well-directed knowledge of the
child's internal organism, as well as of food combinations, I will give a case
which I knew personally. A certain baby cried almost constantly from her
birth,
until she had worn everybody out. Resort was had to many expedients to make
rest possible to those who had the care of her. She circulated like a bad
penny. She would be" sent from home with her nurse for a few days, and
back
again as soon as possible; no one could keep her long at a time. Only when
asleep could she be endured, and sleep was uncertain.
At
night she had a large chamber to herself, father, mother, and nurse taking
turns in occupying a smaller one which opened from it, in this
way
giving each two nights in which to rest as best they could with the voice of
her screaming filling the house.
When
she was about fourteen months old, her grandmother came to see what was the
matter with the child. Grandma did not believe that there was any need of such
a state of things, and proposed to correct it if she could have undisputed authority.
She found that many things had to be considered by this time; for the habit of
crying had to be broken, as well as the cause removed. I cannot go into the
whole history of the case; can only show how the grand result turned on very
simple things.
The
grandmother discovered constipation, and a fine red rash just under the skin,
which, while not very noticeable, was enough to produce irritation.
As
soon as the little body became warm, this would redden and burn ; but on
exposure to the air would fade out so as to be scarcely perceptible,
and
so had escaped notice. The food had been malted milk, cow's milk, mutton broth,
and a soft curdled egg once a day. She was fed every three hours. The first
change in her program was as follows: At 6 A. M. she was given all the water
she would drink, and an hour later a ripe pear, sometimes two, peaches and
apples in their season, all scraped to a pulp, with a graham cracker or two
moistened with the fruit. At eleven o'clock she was given bread, crackers,
and
sterilized milk mixed with lime-water. She was then hung in a hammock on the
back porch, so covered that neither light nor air would disturb
her,
and left to go to sleep. She was kept comfortable as to clothing, etc. Talcom
powder was applied to prevent the irritation from the rash, and then if she
cried, she was left to cry alone. At no time was any crying to be noticed.
As
soon as it began, she was apparently forsaken. At 3 p. m. she had fruit, with
graham crackers; and at seven o'clock, with her bottle of milk and lime-water,
she went to bed. In less than two weeks the difficulty was so far overcome that
the house became habitable and the nights restful. Before a month passed, she
had almost ceased to cry at all, and began to develop the sweetest baby ways
that could be imagined. She seemed herself to realize that a great pressure was
removed from her little soul, and to appreciate the change. It was such a
reaction as can hardly be understood by those who have not passed through a
similar experience. Those who saw her can never forget how she so suddenly
developed into health and happy life that it appeared almost miraculous.
The
study of the child's body from head to foot should be the mother's daily
practice. Every organ should have the most careful notice. Many a child has
been misunderstood all his life because his vision was defective, and no
one
suspected the fact. He has become deaf because his ears were not properly cared
for; the accumulation of wax has closed up the passage,
even
pressing against the ear-drum, and has been the cause of a lifelong trouble.
The nasal passages, for the lack of a little delicate attention,
have
become clogged, and catarrh has resulted from simple disregard of ordinary
cleansing. Injury has been wrought by
harsh means in endeavors
to
secure this cleanliness. A pin-head is a dangerous instrument to insert into a
baby's nostril; a soft little roll of linen is sufficient. How many children in
the average home are ever taught to brush their teeth after each meal and
on
rising in the morning? while the more ''uncomely parts" are treated not
only with neglect but dishonor.
The
food which is served to children in the majority of homes, as well as neglect
in care, will produce irritation of the groin, and of the anus itself, if not
actual prolapse of the bowel; and any child suffering from any one of these causes
cannot be expected to behave in any sense of the word. He will be "possessed of the devil"
of discomfort, not to say distress, such as he cannot understand, and will be
very "hard to manage."
Many
children are born with a tendency to irritation of the sexual organs, which
will lead to impure, unclean thinking and action, unless the evil is nipped in
the bud. This will require a study of the parts affected, and the most delicate
and intelligent treatment of them, such as can only be given by a mother who
fully appreciates her office, and is so fully taught by the word and Spirit of
God that she will see the safe course to follow in all these things. The
terrible scourge of impurity, and the plague of secret vice, which have
destroyed the beauty of so many childish faces, have resulted more from the
ignorance of mothers than from any other cause. Satan has his stronghold here
at the fountain of life, because it is here that God would most intimately associate
himself in sacred relations with the race; and the enemy of all purity can only
be prevented from perfecting his deadly work in the growing child by the most
constant vigilance from infancy on through childhood and youth.
You
have seen children whose hands were continually dropping downward, simply
because they were in a state of constant physical irritation, for which they
were not responsible. No child will habitually put his hands on any part of his
body which is in a normal condition. This irritation is sometimes caused by
tight and badly shaped clothing. Too many folds of the napkin on the baby will
produce heat, as will also drawers that are too short, or are so made as to
chafe the parts. If he rubs or handles any part of his body, it needs
examination, treatment, and cure. The greatest care should be taken in the
child's bath, and among the earliest lessons which he should learn is that he
must not handle any of these organs. The mother does not fail to teach him that
if anything happens to irritate the eye, ear, nose, or throat, he is to come to
her at once, as sight and hearing, are at stake: this same carefulness should
extend to the more important parts, upon the health of which depends the very
life of soul as well as body. Impurity of thought takes root here in practice and
habit, and from hence branches out into every avenue of the entire being, and
destroys for two worlds. The habit of secret vice, once formed, is terrible in
its tenacious hold; and yet it can be cured. I know a man, now great and pure,
filled with good works for the world, who at seventeen was a wreck from evil practices,
of which neither father nor mother had ever so much as dreamed. A sister of about
twenty-three years, who was a teacher, and who had had her eyes opened to much
sad truth, suspected the cause of her brother's condition. She consulted the
family physician, and gained the confidence of her brother, and inspired him to
efforts which she aided by watching beside him during the nights, taking her
sleep by day, until the terrible grip of habit was broken, and he, by the grace
of God, was saved. This man does not hesitate to say that all that he is, and
all he is able to do in the work of God, is the result of the efforts of this sister.
The
child should be taught by his mother that it is the office of the sexual organ, more than anything else, to bring him
into co-partnership with God as the Creator; and for this reason it is
especially sacred, and should be under the mother's care until the child is old
enough to understand these things himself.
(To be continued.)
Adventist Review and Sabbath
Herald March 30, 1897 Vol. 74 No. 13
(Written from the Sanitarium
in Battle Creek, MI)
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